This is going to ruffle some feathers.
Not working at a job is a privilege for me. I am not obligated to work, and even if I do, I could leave at the slightest inconvenience. But there are people who have responsibilities and actual reasons for doing it. So me saying that I can detach myself from the aspect of earning is a luxury, and I want to acknowledge it.
I get to speak about detachment because, in this moment, I don’t have huge responsibilities or actual reasons tying me down. There’s this reel on Instagram that hit me hard. A dad is reassuring his son, promising to send money, and urging him not to worry about job uncertainties.
It made me reflect on privilege. Saying, “Detach yourself from money, and more will come,” is from the perspective of someone with a safety net. We can dive into discussions about mental health and self-discovery when basic needs like food, shelter, and safety are met. For some, detachment is a necessity, not a choice. Bills, family, survival—these aren’t things you easily detach from. There’s a stark reality in not having the luxury to quit a job at the snap of a finger. Responsibilities weigh differently for each person.
So, as we talk about detachment, let’s remember the diversity of our situations. Acknowledging privilege doesn’t diminish personal struggles, but it adds a layer of empathy. Detachment might be a goal, but it’s okay if it’s not an immediate reality. Our journeys are unique, shaped by circumstances we can’t always control. It’s essential to recognize that each person’s path is their own. We all walk with different weights on our shoulders, navigating through life at our own pace. Here’s to understanding, empathy, and the shared journey of figuring it all out.
Until next time, Adios amigo!
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